Career In Meteorology

Should I change my career choice to find someone?

I feel so lonely compared to other people who having fun dating and stuff. However, I feel that its my career choice that is keeping a potential mate away from me. I’m a meteorology major and I was thinking of changing to business or accountant; however truly I’m not interested in neither of those fields. I love meteorology since I was a kid, but I feel that people thinks scientists are nerdy people with big glasses. That is how people see scientists sometimes, but I don’t wanna be thought as that. A lot of times I never talk to girls I always wait for them to make the first move to strike up a conversation because I’m shy. I just don’t know what to say to a girl and how to ask them out because I feel so uneasy. I just want a girl to ask me out because it will make me feel more comfortable then me asking them. When girls ask me what my major is and when I tell them I feel they think I’m a total geeky, nerdy and they don’t want to date me at all. So should I change my major? Or do I need to change myself personally and if so where should I start?

Public Comments

1. keep doing what your doing they will come around.be your self and maybe find a church near by to attend
2. you should follow you heart and do wat you think is right
3. Girls like guys who Love what they do. If a guy is really into his career then the girl is excited too. Who would want someone who goes into a field of research to find a girl. Who would give up what he loved in order to date? Who would never ask them out because it is too "hard"? Stay in your field, start acting friendlier and start asking girls out. We are not going to come up to your door and start knocking. Men are suppose to do the chasing.....if a girl does it she feels trampy.
4. are u kidding me i love smart guys that way u can have decent conversations yea but stick to what u love coz if u dont love what u do u cannot truly be happy
5. If you change your major and that somehow gets you a girlfriend, it probably won't last long anyway, because you're not going to be happy. Continue to follow the major YOU want, because you're the one who's going to be doing it for the rest of your life. Don't make yourself miserable because of people's misconception of a scientist. If you want to date someone, ask them out. Start talking to girls! A good way to become more comfortable is to start making friends who are girls, it'll help you become more comfortable around the opposite sex. A lot of girls still wait for a guy to ask them out, though. So, muster up some courage and prepare a couple of smart comebacks (just in case) if it'll make you feel better.
6. You will NEVER find the right person for you if you change to find the right person! Do what you love, and it will eventually lead you to other people who love what you love. Isn't that better than being false, working at something you hate and STILL not finding your true love? Consider this: if a girl likes you because you pretend to be something you are not, then does she really like you? You are obviously very young. When you get older, you will find women (not "girls!") will respect you for being yourself! And start asking girls out yourself! I once read that being shy is a kind of selfishness: it makes others work harder to get to know you. Get yourself out there! Take a chance!
7. u should totally NOt change ur carreer choice. changing it shoud have nothing to do with girls. if its something u really like to do u should do it. the girl that u be with should be cool with ur carreer choice. the girl has to see the reall u and if the "real u" is someone who's into meteorology than u should stick to it!
8. Don't give up what you love doing! If the girl for you is out there, you don't need to risk ruining you life just to find her. Keep doing what you love! You should try kicking your social life up a notch and put yourself out there. A girl can't find someone if he's not there! Do you have many friends? Host a party and invite them to invite their friends too. (NOTE: DOn't do that if your friends have wierd friends!) You'll find her one day. As for telling them your major, I don't think that has anything to do with it. However, if you're lacking confidence and saying it like "Oh, i'm a meteorologist..." as if you wish you weren't, it could be making them back off. Who wants an unconfident guy? In summary: Don't quit what you love. Get out socially more. Get a confidence boost. After that, it won't be long!
9. i wouldnt change who u r just so u can find the right one ... i say do wut u do and b patient someone will come .. but ... the girl asking the guy that is something that rarely happens .. u should ask her out .. make u confident in her eyes and when she asks bout ur major .. aend she runs then may b she wuznt the right one for u .. but if she stays then she wants to get to know who U r ,,and not wut u do .. and the other woman that left u .. prolly just wuzznt interested in u but ur money or ur career .. it depends on the woman .. to a shy person strkiing up a conversation is kind of hard and u need practice.. but dont think bout it to much just walk up and just talk bout .. wut ever pop in ur head .. how ur day wuz or ask her for cofee and then talk bout --interest ETC ...... .... when they ask bout ur major .. u dont need 2 feel .. geeky..i dont know y u would feel that -if that is ur passion then she would understand... and still want to get to know you .. i think ur fine and ur career is good 2 ... but u should b more confident ..on wut u do and wut girl u want to ask out .. u'll end up finding someone ..and keeping ur career ..
10. No don't change your career choice. That is a job that you will be doing for 60 years. Make it the one you want. You need to change yourself personally. by making yourself more confident. . Remember anything worth wile is worth sacrificing for. Nothing good comes easy. When you see someone that you like. gather the balls and put the fear aside swallow hard and talk to them. Fear of rejection is hard to over come but with determination you will succeed. Sometime when you see a girl. Think to yourself if I don't do it now I will miss out and may never see her again. Good luck. Girls like confidant but they don't like cocky. Shy wont got you anywhere.